Nigerian actress, Damilola Adegbite has shared the ingredient to finding peace.
In a post she shared on Instagram, she made it known that when you come to terms that nobody owes you anything, then will you find a new level of peace. She further stated that we need to learn to live our lives not expecting much from anybody.
“You will find a new level of peace when you come to terms with the fact that nobody owes you anything. We all want different things in life and very rarely, do we completely put other people’s needs before ours. We must learn to live our lives not expecting much from anybody, no matter how much we have given. It sounds impossible, I know. We are human and betrayal in whatever form hurts. But I’m continuing to learn that you heal and move on faster, and strangely, discover your hidden strengths, when you accept that we are human. We must understand that there is no perfect person anywhere. Sometimes we put pressure on one another expecting so much from our bosses, partners, friends, children… Acknowledge and respect that we are ALL flawed. Prepare for the worst but strive for the best in all relationships. Then and only then can we enjoy inner tranquility.”