“A man gets something, it’s well deserved but when a woman does, she had to sell her body for it” – BBNaija Nengi laments
BBNaija lockdown housemate, Nengi, has lamented over the double standard portrayed when men and women attain a certain achievement.
In a tweet shared via her handle on Tuesday afternoon November 17, Nengi who is the Special Assistant to Bayelsa state governor, Duoye Diri, stressed that when a man gets something, it is believed he is well deserved of it but when a woman does, it is believed she must have sold her body to get it. According to her, the double standard irks her.
She wrote;
”The double standard irks me.. A man gets something, it’s well deserved but when a woman does, she had to sell her body for it. Funny how it’s even women undervaluing women. No, not funny actually. Grateful for the people who are constantly working to unlearn the way Patriarchy has clouded how we walk through the world.”
It is obvious and common among Nigerians most people actually think so but they are still hard-working women in the society so we cannot judge them by that not every woman gives out her body for money
You shouldn’t think that way, there are lots of women who works harder before they could get to where they are today and there some who needs to sell their bodies before they could get to where they are also.
Such is life, if people don’t see they won’t make such allegation and it depends on the one belongs to you.
Many of the students nowadays can’t boast their results that they had, if to say the fact what people are insinuating are partially true.
Those who are having attaining the higher position with credibility or any achievement are there and we have those who are not.
Thats world people people for you my dear sister, some don’t believe that women can achieve something without using their body to get it.
Hmmmmmm.. that is because woman always had it all the way very easily…
when a girl is not doing anything reasonable but she is holding something bigger her ten years salary sister check out na
If is obvious you have to do it.
Yea! Most people believe women can’t get a big position without giving out their body.
my sister is not like that so don’t think it that way
We have few of them who work tirelessly to make it legidly the rest use won’t they have to get what they want
Most at times that happens and that is why people generalize
There are still occasions when a woman gets something out of merit
When oil touches one finger it affects the other fingers.But there are still ladies who make it through hardwork