”We need to stop attributing every woman’s success to her sexual prowess with men’ – Toyin Abraham reacts to Ruggedman’s post
Actress, Toyin Abraham Ajeyemi, has reacted to the post shared on Twitter by rapper, Ruggedman, in which he asked why female actors were the only ones buying cars and houses, unlike their male counterparts.
Ruggedman tweeted
”My male actors in nollywood whats going on? Its just the females that are buying cars and building houses left and right. I wanted to come into nollywood but at this rate, I am not coming again”
Reacting to this via her Instagram page, Toyin expressed disappointment as to why many people seize the opportunity to say derogatory words against female actors.
She attested to knowing a lot of women in the movie industry who charge in millions adding that she is one of them. She stressed that people need to stop attributing the successes of women in whatever industry to her sexual prowess with men.
Her post reads:
“I saw the social media post made by respected rapper, Ruggedman about women making more money and doing well better than men.
I read between the lines and saw what Ruggedman implied. It is a little bit sad that many people on social media leeched on it with many derogatory comments about women especially those of us in Nollywood.
It is important that I put this out there that many women make money and make good money legitimately. I know actresses who charge 2 million, 3 million and 5 million in this Nollywood. I get paid in millions of naira for gigs. As a a matter of fact, I just paid for a very good car worth millions of Naira and at the same time I know a lot of men in Nollywood who are doing extra ordinarily well and paid in millions. The fact that most of these men choose not to make noise on social media do not in any way mean that they are second class citizens in this industry.
We need to stop attributing every woman’s success to her sexual prowess with men, women deserve the success they have as much as men without attributing it to their sexuality. Nollywood women like Bimbo Ademoye, Nancy Isime, Kehinde Bankole, Inidima Okojie , Sharon Ooja, Bisola Aiyeola, are getting paid in millions. Even script writers that are not in the limelight are getting paid in millions. It is disparaging to put the successes of these women within the box of their sexuality. A lot of women are doing great things legitimately. I am one of them and so also are many other women in other industries not just the entertainment industry.
A woman is more than the sum total of her sexuality.”
Toyin Abraham Ajeyemi.”
hmmmmmmmmm…..
Well said Toyin Abraham but you need to speak for yourself not for everyone, some women who might have doing dirty job but you may not know.
In the other way round, the expenses which men incurred on their family is much than the one that women will do. Sometimes, before taking care of his immediate family, extended family and so many other things.