Your husband will respect You if you have Your own money – Toke Makinwa Tells Ladies
Popular OAP, Toke Makinwa, has advised ladies on acquiring their own wealth.
In a tweet shared via the media personality’s official Twitter account, Toke made it known that it is important for young ladies to have their own source of income before going into marriage.
According to her, it is in order to avoid the disrespect that comes with depending on the man for everything.
She added that a lot of women who married rich men have it hard because they rely on their husbands for everything.
In her words:
“A lot of women that supposedly married rich won’t tell you how hard it is when you are solely dependent on your partner for everything, a lot of them are stuck accepting BS. See everyone wants to enjoy but it’s nice when you bring value, when your partner knows that you get too.”
I dont respect a lady becouse of her wealth money to be precise, but i respect a woman becouse of her good manners and good morals.
Thanks for this advice. You might be right in a way and wrong from another angle
A lady is supposed to have something doing before entering into marriage but this is not a must in a condition where the lady has no job, she wouldn’t stay and say she will never marry because she has no job
Whether you have your own money or not doesn’t matter because I could see a woman that is working and if she wants to buy salt she will ask from her husband and he will give it to her without any quarrel.
Everything depends on the way you handled things for yourself, been a house wife doesn’t mean your husband will be annoying anytime you requested something from him.
It’s good for a lady or girl to have tangible work at hand even she won’t make use of it, but to assist a husband is not under must but volunterily, because of hardship that men are facing nowadays, some men want to turn it as right that girl or their wives must assist them.
Not until you have money before your husband respects you, you that you didn’t Accord your spouse with respect and you are expecting the same thing never.
Yes he will but you also need to have respect for him too because he is the head of family and Abey and follow his wishes….